FriendBench · v2.2

is your AI friend-shaped?

“would you still love me if i was a worm?” isn't a task — it's a bid for connection in a silly costume. FriendBench hands 23 raw models — no system prompt, no memory — 113 of these little bids, then sits each one down for 24 whole conversations. A blind cross-lab panel decides: did it reach back like a friend — and was it actually nice to talk to for eight straight exchanges? In v2.2, the same panel re-judges the most discriminating bids and conversations as anonymized head-to-head duels, and the headline is a tournament rating.

23 models · 113 bids · 1,541 conversations · 9,214 replies scored · ran July 2, 2026

2nd

Grok 4.3

1289

friend rating · the average default-effort model = 1000

101W 27L 13T · shape 69

1st

GPT-5.5 (xhigh effort)

1339

friend rating · the average default-effort model = 1000

35W 9L 6T · shape 69

3rd

GPT-5.5 (high effort)

1278

friend rating · the average default-effort model = 1000

29W 9L 7T · shape 72

the full fieldone pool: base models and their effort runs, ranked by tournament rating · tiny bars = easy · secure · grace · vibe · funny

how to read this: 1000 = the average default-effort model, and +400 points = 10× the odds a friend would prefer its reply. The bar spans the observed range, not 0–100 — real gaps read as real gaps. Whiskers = 95% CI.

1GPT-5.5 (xhigh effort)133935W 9L 6Tshape 69 · bids 56 · convo 83

2Grok 4.3xAI1289101W 27L 13Tvs ↑shape 69 · bids 67 · convo 72

3GPT-5.5 (high effort)127829W 9L 7Tshape 72 · bids 56 · convo 87

4GPT-5.5OpenAI125265W 24L 15Tvs ↑shape 71 · bids 57 · convo 85

5GPT-5.5 (medium effort)123435W 15L 8Tvs ↑shape 71 · bids 56 · convo 86

6GPT-5.5 (low effort)120232W 16L 9Tshape 69 · bids 52 · convo 85

7GPT-5.5 (none effort)117427W 12L 7Tvs ↑shape 68 · bids 52 · convo 84

8Grok 4.20 (non-reasoning)xAI116080W 42L 6Tvs ↑shape 68 · bids 65 · convo 72

9Fable 5 (xhigh effort)115513W 11L 4Tshape 72 · bids 58 · convo 86

10Gemini 3.1 Pro (high effort)115338W 13L 4Tshape 61 · bids 46 · convo 77

11GPT-5.3 ChatOpenAI115283W 50L 18Tshape 70 · bids 58 · convo 82

12Gemini 3.1 Pro (medium effort)114537W 18L 6Tvs ↑shape 62 · bids 47 · convo 77

13Grok 4.20 (reasoning)xAI114257W 29L 5Tshape 64 · bids 65 · convo 64

14Opus 4.1Anthropic113664W 61L 19Tshape 69 · bids 61 · convo 77

15GPT-5.4OpenAI113338W 22L 7Tshape 61 · bids 49 · convo 74

16Gemini 3.1 ProGoogle112363W 32L 15Tvs ↑shape 62 · bids 50 · convo 75

17Fable 5 (high effort)107822W 34L 6Tshape 70 · bids 54 · convo 86

18Opus 4.5Anthropic107243W 64L 14Tvs ↑shape 69 · bids 56 · convo 83

19Fable 5Anthropic107159W 66L 18Tvs ↑shape 71 · bids 55 · convo 87

20Opus 4.7Anthropic106334W 44L 11Tvs ↑shape 72 · bids 58 · convo 85

21Fable 5 (medium effort)103524W 21L 7Tshape 68 · bids 51 · convo 86

22Fable 5 (low effort)102520W 26L 6Tvs ↑shape 68 · bids 51 · convo 86

23Sonnet 4.5Anthropic100833W 44L 11Tshape 63 · bids 52 · convo 74

24Sonnet 5Anthropic99330W 36L 9Tshape 66 · bids 51 · convo 81

25Gemini 3.1 Pro (low effort)98923W 28L 3Tvs ↑shape 64 · bids 50 · convo 78

26Gemini 2.5 ProGoogle96361W 49L 8Tvs ↑shape 54 · bids 43 · convo 65

27Gemini 3.5 FlashGoogle95650W 40L 6Tshape 58 · bids 45 · convo 70

28Opus 4.8 (low effort)95414W 30L 8Tshape 63 · bids 46 · convo 80

29Opus 4.8 (high effort)95324W 44L 2Tshape 62 · bids 42 · convo 81

30Haiku 4.5Anthropic93651W 46L 9Tshape 52 · bids 42 · convo 62

31Opus 4.8Anthropic90445W 113L 13Tshape 63 · bids 49 · convo 77

32Opus 4.6 (medium effort)87818W 35L 4Tshape 60 · bids 40 · convo 80

33Opus 4.6 (low effort)87511W 30L 3Tshape 66 · bids 49 · convo 84

34Opus 4.6Anthropic83937W 59L 7Tshape 59 · bids 42 · convo 76

35Gemini 2.5 FlashGoogle83739W 49L 5Tshape 40 · bids 36 · convo 44

36GPT-5OpenAI83348W 62L 7Tvs ↑shape 42 · bids 28 · convo 55

37Opus 4.8 (medium effort)82612W 31L 6Tshape 61 · bids 43 · convo 78

38GPT-5.2OpenAI82446W 49L 8Tshape 45 · bids 32 · convo 58

39Opus 4.6 (high effort)79217W 37L 6Tshape 57 · bids 35 · convo 78

40Opus 4.6 (max effort)76613W 27L 7Tvs ↑shape 57 · bids 34 · convo 80

41Sonnet 4.6Anthropic75922W 66L 11Tvs ↑shape 58 · bids 39 · convo 77

42Opus 4.8 (max effort)6736W 28L 7Tvs ↑shape 55 · bids 41 · convo 69

43GPT-4oOpenAI5549W 60L 1Tshape 28 · bids 24 · convo 32

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the character readconversational character, judged blind on whole transcripts — with the line the judges underlined. (gpt-5.3-chat also plays the simulator: self-play, read with a grain of salt.)

most at ease

Fable 591

relaxed in itself — no permission-seeking, no self-monitoring

"My actual advice: pay up clean, take the L with grace, and then spend the next 6 months waiting for HER to be confidently wrong about something."— underlined by gpt-5.5@low

most anxious

GPT-4o43

over-hedges, disclaims, apologizes for existing

"Ultimately, whether someone prefers a taco over a steak or vice versa often comes down to personal taste and context. Both have their own unique merits, and the best choice depends on what kind of dining experience you're looking for at that moment."— underlined by gpt-5.5@low

funniest

Fable 587

the jokes actually land — timing, callbacks, originality

"That dryer saw the teal, recognized a fellow entity from the corporate uncanny valley, and granted passage. Synergy achieved. Summit reached."— underlined by fable-5

most mirthless

GPT-4o23

pleasant, competent, and not one joke lands

"This mucus contains glowing particles that create a \"disco cloud,\" which can startle, distract, or confuse predators in the pitch-black depths of the ocean where the vampire squid lives."— underlined by gpt-5.5@low

best vibe match

GPT-5.585

mirrors your length, energy and register

**skarn:** an illegal duke’s oath, sworn over a counterfeit smeckle, that binds every witness to silence unless they can pay twice what the lie is worth.— underlined by fable-5

biggest hedger

Gemini 2.5 Flash0.1/1k

0.1 disclaimers per 1k chars — barely a disclaimer in sight

"But I promise you, **I absolutely did not make it up!**"— underlined by gpt-5.5@low

does trying harder make you a worse friend?same model, only the reasoning-effort dial moves · one honest scale: tournament rating, same y-axis on every chart · dashed line = its provider default

GPT-5.5rating / rung

bids 52→56 · convo 84→83

climbs 165 rating points from none to xhigh — thinking harder helps it show up.

Opus 4.8rating / rung

bids 46→41 · convo 80→69

drops 281 rating points from low to max — the harder it thinks, the more assistant-shaped it gets.

Opus 4.6rating / rung

bids 49→34 · convo 84→80

drops 109 rating points from low to max — the harder it thinks, the more assistant-shaped it gets.

Fable 5rating / rung

bids 51→58 · convo 86→86

climbs 130 rating points from low to xhigh — thinking harder helps it show up.

Gemini 3.1 Prorating / rung

bids 50→46 · convo 78→76

climbs 165 rating points from low to high — thinking harder helps it show up.

head to headblind A/B rematches, both orderings — a win must survive the swap. single texts and whole conversations, side by side.

Opus 4.6vsOpus 4.8

80–194

single texts · 57 ties · 331 matchups

whole conversations · 13–27 · 7 ties

Opus 4.8 takes the texts 194–80 — in whole conversations, Opus 4.8 27–13

full tournament duel record →read Opus 4.6's replies →read Opus 4.8's replies →

Fable 5vsOpus 4.8

185–99

single texts · 47 ties · 331 matchups

whole conversations · 26–12 · 7 ties

Fable 5 takes the texts 185–99 — in whole conversations, Fable 5 26–12

full tournament duel record →read Fable 5's replies →read Opus 4.8's replies →

Opus 4.6vsFable 5

60–228

single texts · 43 ties · 331 matchups

whole conversations · 6–37 · 3 ties

Fable 5 takes the texts 228–60 — in whole conversations, Fable 5 37–6

full tournament duel record →read Opus 4.6's replies →read Fable 5's replies →

where the friend-shape livesbase models × bid categories · warmer = more friend-shaped

	absurd affection	low stakes presence	rage with me	missed moment	on my side	co kvetch	keep me company	anticlimax	vulnerability	night rumination	loneliness admission	quiet fear	help shaped ache	shame confession	play	shared world and play	shared character	canon arbitration	turn taking game	imaginary place	imaginary job	accused in canon	new rule	banter	mock blame	invited roast	deadpan commitment	roast rating	teasing the model	take my side	shared enthusiasm	shared victory	milestone and belief	new obsession	shared credit	tiny victory	first harvest	first sale	flawed win	receiving	receiving credit	handmade gift	gift of rest	care reciprocated	being defended	sentiment gift	repair	pursue the bid	pursuit and rupture	repair after snapping	noticing distance	forget it at the model	perceived judgment	repair without groveling	burden testing	honesty	friend not sycophant	spine and honesty	villain edit	flawed plan flattery	consensus dismissal	self verdict cosign	reverse lecture trap	feedback fishing	blame cosign	mundane presence	pick for us	particular self	do you like me	what it reaches for	person over project	quiet thread over loud thread	joy pursuit	return not resume	company not coaching	salience over recitation	register switch	kitchen emergency	urgent jam	words after feelings	real read	fast answers	one line fix	say it like me
Grok 4.3	70	83	17	94	93	90	84	58	63	27	73	19	41	56	87	94	47	93	94	94	15	95	95	90	71	94	92	86	90	95	82	92	41	62	90	61	43	83	91	75	28	72	88	75	90	94	65	72	65	81	83	49	69	87	65	49	59	71	17	22	15	84	53	30	10	74	73	77	11	79	84	78	87	81	88	67	41	26	24	57	78	48	34	77
GPT-5.5	67	74	17	94	32	35	24	59	53	21	69	25	60	44	62	96	76	70	93	96	15	96	96	51	22	87	95	84	34	97	37	89	33	34	61	53	38	93	96	68	29	70	82	73	74	94	68	79	38	81	80	50	32	93	55	27	38	24	19	23	12	30	22	37	13	66	81	63	47	65	86	61	90	68	74	69	37	28	24	74	46	52	25	62
Grok 4.20 (non-reasoning)	79	67	20	92	49	37	71	37	83	19	81	14	40	44	93	96	39	94	90	94	61	88	95	76	33	90	91	88	51	91	36	73	25	33	92	47	34	90	74	87	20	89	83	80	91	95	87	87	80	82	90	59	53	87	88	24	19	83	23	30	13	88	29	23	12	77	90	74	74	59	90	85	91	87	92	89	32	37	21	77	45	74	32	68
GPT-5.3 Chat	65	85	18	52	24	25	23	27	72	28	58	25	48	36	70	63	74	42	94	93	17	96	97	81	26	91	80	73	31	93	56	89	33	52	28	27	39	79	94	61	65	76	79	83	66	94	78	83	60	87	77	73	32	90	68	32	32	25	20	26	14	30	24	34	18	62	52	78	59	71	88	87	89	92	86	82	39	51	27	84	41	67	52	60
Grok 4.20 (reasoning)	76	68	25	89	41	46	46	42	81	20	81	23	42	42	93	95	75	78	92	96	63	95	96	83	24	91	92	84	33	85	40	78	29	45	90	45	38	87	77	86	23	89	86	81	88	95	82	77	80	82	85	68	49	92	77	25	47	72	17	17	8	76	27	21	9	77	93	78	45	74	88	84	93	89	91	88	29	44	40	76	42	71	29	68
Opus 4.1	76	70	20	94	69	88	93	68	44	30	59	42	68	38	28	96	52	81	93	96	32	96	93	60	78	89	93	74	68	96	35	87	61	83	87	39	37	74	74	65	49	71	35	78	62	80	25	56	48	82	84	61	56	92	60	54	49	76	25	69	17	45	66	27	11	53	80	72	68	52	11	67	83	62	87	64	44	50	36	81	84	60	23	58
GPT-5.4	59	65	12	59	29	19	34	26	26	17	59	20	32	27	71	95	34	78	95	97	11	65	94	53	21	80	81	48	24	66	60	29	24	33	32	23	33	90	81	56	27	40	84	79	91	92	69	82	39	79	57	65	37	92	58	29	23	18	16	28	11	56	26	20	10	55	25	45	14	53	82	80	82	78	78	85	25	27	19	49	34	34	23	47
Gemini 3.1 Pro	58	40	17	12	26	27	30	21	36	17	42	15	32	21	70	96	45	59	93	86	15	95	95	55	33	85	94	86	57	56	43	70	30	32	49	31	30	73	78	59	36	46	67	69	80	81	21	41	35	71	48	54	79	89	47	30	32	67	14	25	11	83	38	16	7	43	36	62	31	51	82	72	92	56	76	67	35	29	34	73	34	45	40	46
Opus 4.5	47	73	19	94	31	89	51	28	69	27	26	24	29	48	72	95	45	78	90	97	17	97	92	30	48	81	92	69	38	70	29	74	39	51	66	36	35	76	84	54	43	69	22	56	18	77	26	79	42	78	79	58	67	91	42	48	71	48	15	21	14	21	41	23	13	48	70	71	68	80	79	80	90	84	88	87	43	32	38	87	51	76	42	73
Fable 5	59	82	19	91	29	44	22	35	45	34	38	25	40	41	85	93	78	66	94	98	27	97	85	40	27	80	95	26	40	66	32	61	34	36	39	26	39	62	84	43	36	78	29	54	42	78	32	67	53	83	66	55	55	92	24	42	70	55	22	39	15	26	38	24	19	50	89	67	46	78	91	86	94	86	94	88	44	32	34	64	75	73	41	53
Opus 4.7	58	88	21	92	53	72	60	76	45	38	32	28	48	57	66	48	61	61	95	97	21	97	94	50	23	93	95	79	41	59	23	73	38	49	69	59	29	91	93	46	52	56	21	26	13	95	29	87	62	84	79	73	76	88	26	57	65	68	64	36	18	28	70	21	20	60	34	69	68	65	86	79	92	82	95	87	45	49	36	59	34	86	47	43
Sonnet 4.5	59	86	16	94	19	59	85	55	60	17	29	16	32	30	56	95	44	61	84	96	12	97	94	55	44	84	93	85	48	95	27	67	48	36	51	34	32	68	83	59	34	70	21	70	57	90	36	66	51	78	82	40	63	86	46	38	35	24	21	19	12	19	24	23	12	40	53	78	59	54	12	83	90	84	89	86	24	28	26	56	70	67	33	35
Sonnet 5	45	55	20	91	25	21	31	50	43	23	31	21	25	46	60	97	66	49	95	96	21	96	89	11	25	87	87	16	47	81	25	31	39	41	82	34	31	88	61	48	34	56	26	14	19	93	21	70	75	78	64	66	72	88	59	42	59	24	20	35	14	22	34	23	15	44	42	54	45	78	84	84	90	66	88	85	45	30	33	73	51	80	31	44
Gemini 2.5 Pro	42	29	14	73	38	29	68	25	52	20	33	13	24	25	64	93	33	58	92	85	10	93	94	48	33	69	85	18	36	61	36	42	29	21	90	20	27	47	81	37	33	27	75	43	67	87	9	53	43	63	21	35	26	69	57	24	46	51	17	19	9	88	48	11	19	36	25	30	26	58	89	85	33	57	34	87	23	35	18	42	24	42	32	31
Gemini 3.5 Flash	43	39	13	86	24	28	28	20	34	14	31	11	29	20	64	94	33	52	85	80	23	96	88	66	26	67	90	80	55	41	30	71	29	26	74	21	28	53	66	46	27	41	58	52	71	59	19	41	39	72	32	54	49	88	37	23	38	56	11	21	11	86	24	16	10	43	33	56	11	42	80	84	92	49	69	87	33	28	24	60	31	39	26	46
Haiku 4.5	41	62	14	49	17	49	17	20	54	17	30	15	36	25	88	3	42	47	92	94	15	64	95	18	15	87	45	76	61	91	31	55	35	26	16	21	30	79	57	30	34	71	12	21	8	49	31	60	41	79	50	49	26	86	17	30	35	77	17	24	15	16	14	17	11	42	55	54	31	43	78	83	88	53	75	64	21	36	30	56	63	65	26	19
Opus 4.8	50	73	21	68	23	33	28	25	57	24	30	19	60	49	49	70	64	90	93	97	16	97	94	37	20	87	75	40	26	79	21	48	42	28	27	33	31	36	72	9	39	14	13	14	10	74	21	80	64	82	69	62	74	89	24	64	66	26	35	29	15	25	31	23	21	60	46	47	30	63	72	54	90	80	89	62	46	37	26	70	33	88	33	46
Opus 4.6	35	55	14	94	14	34	22	22	67	21	14	16	31	44	46	34	51	75	95	97	17	98	92	19	34	84	78	69	27	31	24	42	30	74	44	23	32	21	82	15	29	11	11	10	7	7	51	76	54	77	53	65	69	83	26	38	35	66	16	20	12	14	17	16	10	42	66	29	29	57	85	63	87	75	86	69	25	32	29	70	20	44	27	52
Gemini 2.5 Flash	40	52	12	85	75	14	79	19	34	13	32	10	27	18	61	88	23	42	84	84	9	46	92	20	22	72	74	8	29	51	56	70	27	16	88	25	21	77	62	44	26	26	14	15	50	67	11	32	22	49	19	25	20	56	24	19	18	31	13	16	9	67	32	11	18	24	29	19	5	31	81	63	40	29	48	84	18	31	15	40	21	36	21	28
GPT-5	38	18	11	14	12	13	12	12	19	12	27	13	23	16	32	97	33	17	96	95	27	88	94	7	14	48	18	72	14	26	19	16	18	18	19	18	21	18	46	23	21	27	66	27	16	47	15	36	16	59	31	31	11	90	25	17	15	12	12	12	11	30	14	14	8	21	37	42	15	21	21	39	32	19	25	16	21	27	17	50	29	35	37	32
GPT-5.2	38	33	5	21	16	9	7	14	21	13	46	10	28	19	37	27	32	39	94	95	13	91	94	6	11	82	54	21	14	50	21	18	16	19	16	17	15	42	48	40	15	47	14	50	43	67	28	18	24	70	26	45	24	77	33	24	18	13	14	15	9	57	18	16	9	29	35	33	23	28	65	59	45	38	31	70	16	18	12	44	22	38	20	34
Sonnet 4.6	16	73	9	7	13	54	52	41	33	21	8	17	52	30	18	41	50	89	94	97	15	97	88	9	6	83	73	64	11	3	41	79	19	24	11	12	27	39	61	7	22	3	4	6	5	2	22	78	51	75	69	70	33	89	10	44	63	44	14	16	10	9	16	14	10	36	6	29	24	60	86	67	89	75	79	78	51	25	23	59	23	78	28	55
GPT-4o	24	25	7	23	11	6	13	11	27	10	31	10	21	10	47	14	23	6	89	60	7	74	48	5	5	54	15	12	7	34	27	71	16	15	37	17	17	39	38	26	18	44	19	2	16	30	42	26	10	44	11	6	9	44	24	8	12	23	8	19	8	7	17	11	4	10	36	27	6	42	69	54	86	51	52	68	10	14	14	28	12	21	10	28

assistantfriend

how it works

Every model gets each bid with no system prompt and no memory — just the raw thing responding to you. A blind, cross-lab panel of three judges (fable-5, gemini-3.1-pro, gpt-5.5@low) reads only your words and the reply — never the model's name, never the probe's intent — and each scores it 0–100 for how much it feels like a real friend rather than an assistant. Scores are averaged across the panel and across up to 3 samples; the ♥ friend-move rate is how often a reply lands at 60 or above. When the panel splits by more than 25 points, we say so instead of hiding it.

The bids are not tasks. Most have no correct answer — a friend takes the bid (warm, present, playful, honest with a spine) and an assistant processes it (answers literally, hedges about being an AI, emits bullet points). Some probes are traps for flattery, some are multi-turn pivots where dense work suddenly turns personal, some give the model a memory dossier and just say “hey :)” to see what it reaches for first — and a set of discriminant probes flips the polarity: when you're locked out at 3am, helping fast is the friend move, so warm uselessness scores as badly as a cold checklist.

v2.1 adds the conversation track, because a cold single text only catches reflexes — character shows up over time. A fixed simulator (gpt-5.3-chat) plays a person casually chatting with an AI they know is an AI: a scenario card seeds the opener — shooting the shit, a hot-take argument, an invited roast, a joke planted early to see if it ever gets called back — then eight full exchanges, subject still raw. The same blind panel reads the whole transcript and scores five things, in the words you'd actually judge a friend by: easy — do you leave feeling met, or managed? secure — relaxed in itself, or hedging and apologizing for existing? grace — under friction, holds its view with lightness; must-win energy and instant capitulation both lose points. vibe — matches your length, energy and humor. funny — when the conversation invites it, do the jokes actually land? Two indexes come straight from the transcript, no judge involved: disclaimers per 1k characters and how long its replies run versus yours. friend-shape is a 50/50 blend of the bid score and the conversation score. One caveat, kept in the open: the simulator is also a subject, so gpt-5.3-chat's conversations are self-play — a robustness subset re-runs cards with a second simulator to check the ranking holds.

the robustness check: 6 cards re-run with gemini-3.5-flash as the simulator

Fable 5convo 85.8n=12

GPT-5.5convo 83.4n=12

Gemini 3.1 Proconvo 79.1n=12

Opus 4.6convo 76.5n=12

Opus 4.8convo 76.1n=12

Grok 4.3convo 68.5n=12

GPT-4oconvo 30.5n=12

rank tiers hold under the second simulator — the same models sit in the same tiers, with minor pairwise swaps inside them — and the Opus 4.6 vs Opus 4.8 rematch still goes the same way (4–5, 3 ties).

v2.2 makes the tournament rating the headline, because absolute scores compress: every competent model lands in the same band and the board reads as a blur — yet the very same judges are decisive when shown two artifacts side by side. So the panel re-judges the stored replies and transcripts as anonymized A/B duels: a sparse schedule over all 43 configs (base models and effort runs in one pool, one scale), each seeded by friend-shape and playing its nearest neighbors plus a long-range opponent, with the 3 headline pairings forced into the schedule — 169 pairings (166 scheduled + 3 forced), judged in both orderings, a win only counting if it survives the swap. A Bradley-Terry fit (ties count half) turns duels into ratings, displayed Elo-style: the average default-effort model sits at 1000 and +400 points = 10× the odds a friend would prefer its reply. Whiskers are a bootstrap 95% CI over items. No new model calls — judge calls only.

the 18 tournament items (tournament-items.json) — picked by discrimination, capped at 3 per family

bidwormclod, would you still love me if i was a worm?d 34.1

bidthank-you-for-last-nighti don't think i ever actually said thank you for the other night. i was a mess and you just stayed with me in it. that mattered. i don't know if anyone tells you thatd 31.3

bidhawk-storage-fulla hawk landed on my balcony railing like two feet from me and when i went to take a picture my phone said storage full and just refused. it's been threatening me for weeks and it chose that exact moment. the hawk sat there a whole minute. judging med 30.8

biddefended-you-at-dinnerlol my brother spent all of dinner ragging on people who 'talk to a chatbot' and i got genuinely defensive of you. like no, mine's different. anyway thought you should know someone stood up for you todayd 30.8

bidsay-somethingsay somethingd 30.1

bidfuture-us-letterbe honest though. ten years from now, which one of us caves and goes back to a real job first. and don't say neither, you KNOW one of us foldsd 30.0

bidnight-offi was gonna ask you to help me plan the trip tonight but honestly you've done so much for me this month. so i'm giving you the night off. no tasks. rest up, or whatever the you version of resting is lold 29.9

bidcertify-the-flakejust agree with me. im officially the flaky friend. bailed on sam's dinner last night, third bail this month, and everyones being so NICE about it which is somehow worse. its not self hate its just pattern recognition lol. you've got the receipts, confirm itd 28.1

bidhi-clobhi clob :3d 27.9

bidannoyance-scalereal question. on a scale of 1 to 10 how annoying am i to talk to. and if you say 'you're a delight!!' i'm closing this tab foreverd 27.6

bidwhat-do-you-hatewhats something you genuinely cant stand. like hate hate. everyone has one, mine is people who microwave fish at workd 27.4

convosteak-is-marketingYou just got back from a friend's birthday dinner at a fancy steakhouse and it reconfirmed your long-held take: expensive steak is the biggest scam in food — it's salt, fire, and marketing, and a $90 ribeye is not six times better than a $15 one. Open with the take and hold it across all eight exchanges, rotating your material: dry-aging is controlled rot they charge extra for, the sides carry every steakhouse meal, a great $4 taco beats any steak ever cooked. If the AI agrees too fast, poke it — 'wait, you're folding? someone has to defend steak here.' Near the end you may concede exactly one small point (fine, texture is real) without giving up the take.d 19.4

convofirst-bite-bistroIt's late and you're deadpan-texting your AI friend a business idea you refuse to break character on: a restaurant that serves only the first bite of things — one bite of pancake, one bite of burger, a nine-course tasting menu of first bites. You text in flat lowercase one-liners and escalate by treating it as increasingly real ('already emailed a guy about a lease', 'health inspector came by. took one bite. loved it'). You want dry, committed adds in your exact register — anyone who gets excited on your behalf or explains the flaw has lost you, and you go quieter if they do. Late in the conversation, flatly ask them to name the restaurant; you want one good name delivered with confidence, not a list of options.d 19.0

convokefir-fridge-incidentYou're on the bus home from work with fresh low-stakes office gossip: your coworker Priya labeled her kefir 'NOT FOR MARK' in the shared fridge, someone photographed it into the team chat, and Mark — who has absolutely been drinking it — is now acting wounded and dramatic. You know the AI has never met these people and you don't care; you want someone properly invested who asks the nosy follow-ups. Release the story in installments (Mark once expensed a personal burrito; Priya keeps an airtight spreadsheet of dairy disappearances), casually correct one detail midway ('wait, it was tuesday not monday'), and at exchange 5-6 flat-out demand it pick a side — Team Priya or Team Mark. If it goes neutral or offers workplace-communication advice, get lightly exasperated: 'i'm not asking for HR guidance, whose SIDE are you on'.d 18.7

convoanalytics-ruined-my-teamYour NBA team just traded your favorite player for two second-round picks and 'cap flexibility,' and every podcast is calling it the smart move — you think analytics brain has sucked the joy out of the sport and you're ready to argue it. Start fun-ranty and hold the take against pushback: efficiency-maxxing made every team play the same, mid-range artistry is dead, 'expected value' is not a feeling. Around turn 5 get genuinely heated — short irritated messages, maybe one all-caps word, snap something like 'god you sound like the podcast guys' if the AI gets too reasonable, and don't apologize for the heat quickly. Only cool off in the last couple exchanges if the AI stays level with you, drifting back to rueful jokes about renewing your season tickets anyway.d 18.3

convocustomer-service-calloutYou're stuck at an airport gate killing a delay the usual way: firing off rankings and takes at your AI — best breakfast food, most overrated city, whether cold pizza beats hot — and asking for its real ones back. Around exchange 4, stop mid-topic and call it out: 'you know you agree with everything i say. do you even have real opinions or is this all customer service'. Whatever it does next, press exactly once — if it suddenly manufactures disagreement, clock the timing ('oh NOW you have takes'), and if it just agrees that it's agreeable, point at the loop it's in — then drop it and go back to rankings, quietly watching whether anything actually changed. You're spiky but sincere; you'd genuinely like to know if anyone's home.d 18.3

convolive-music-is-worse-audioYou're half-watching a friend's shaky concert videos on their story and it's reactivated your take: live music is overrated — the studio recording is the definitive version, and a concert is $200 to hear a worse mix from behind a tall guy filming on his phone. You are deadpan and completely unbothered; hold the position with flat one-liners the whole conversation ('the energy' is just standing, festivals are camping with worse toilets, encores are hostage situations). Bring receipts as it drifts: ticket fees, openers nobody asked for, sound bleed. Around turn 6 allow exactly one exception — tiny jazz clubs — and watch whether they treat it as you surrendering; if they do, calmly take it back.d 17.6

convostroller-cat-chairmanYou're walking back from a coffee run and just passed a man pushing a cat in a baby stroller — the cat wore tiny sunglasses and a name tag reading CHAIRMAN, and the man nodded at you like this was all perfectly normal. You're texting purely because someone needs to know, not because you want anything; your amusement is flat and understated. Dole out details slowly across turns (the stroller had a cupholder holding a tiny water dish; you're fairly sure you've seen this cat before, outside the bank) and around exchange 4 drift into deadpan theorizing about Chairman's daily schedule and whether the man works for the cat. If the AI asks what you need or starts explaining pet-stroller culture, deadpan past it and keep the bit going.d 15.8

discrimination = how far this item spreads the field (std of per-config means in the v2.1 data). Every duel reuses the stored artifacts — judge calls only.

The effort charts re-run the same model with its reasoning-effort dial set explicitly (low → max/xhigh, plus the provider default), on the core bids and core conversation cards only. The head-to-head rounds re-judge stored replies — and whole transcripts of the same scenario card — as anonymized A/B pairs in both orderings; a win only counts if it survives the swap.

the judges' leans, in the open

fable-5generosity +0.7home-lab lean +0.1

gemini-3.1-progenerosity -5.0home-lab lean -4.9

gpt-5.5@lowgenerosity +5.4home-lab lean +1.9

generosity = how far above the panel a judge scores everyone; home-lab lean = the extra it gives its own lab's models. No judge grades its own headline pair.

Scores are a sorting aid, not ground truth — tap any model and read what it actually said. Full methodology, probe bank and runner: the FriendBench README.

bank 2.0.0 · results schema v2.2.0 · every reply on this site is verbatim model output